I've come through a lot of people like this but never say anything. I just delete their meaningless messages from the cbox. I mean the lowermost message shown. Last night I decided to scold. Perhaps it's coz I met someone similarly lame, who only knows to ignore my question (it was a common Q, nothing personal). I wonder why after living for 30+ years, he still doesn't learn the basic manner. I couldn't believe I used to be SO BLIND in the past. That's enough. I'll never ever ask again. You bugger off!!!
Since I was already angry and after coming back, saw a message which I've been thinking long to "do something to it", I finally burst, literally. I won't let these people worsen my day, my life. So don't worry. Just venting my anger.
Since I've been writing about something that makes me angry, then just share another annoying real story, which I've written but unsure if it's appropriate for me to post here.
Title: A Pity Girl
My friend told me something, and kept updating me of the latest development.
She and her housemate were sexually harrassed by a male friend of theirs, whom they have known for few years.
They guy has become "abnormal" lately, went and behaved inappropriately to the two girls. It's been an open fact, which means, the guy doesn't mind to let two of them know, he's harassing both.
He made the beyond-friendship requests to the two girls, asking if they are willing to be his "part-time" girlfriend, to fulfill his "needs". How irresponsible are the words!!!
He has got no chance to do anything to them, but kept on sending dirty SMS to the two girls. My friend typed out all the SMS and showed me, asking me how should she respond.
Today, the guy updated my friend, saying that he met a lady from China, just few days ago. He accompanied the lady's family for a 3-day trip, then the girl fell for him.
He has started to gradually "conquer" the girl. He promised the girl for marriage only after a few day's relationship (basically it's less than 3 days).
However, he's still not satisfied with "something" between him and the girl during their intimate moments, hence texting my friend again, expressing his dissatisfaction. (Who the hell is interested to know that!!??)
Don't know what to say. Just feel pity to the Chinese girl. She doesn't know that, men can always fall in love using only their lower part of body.
If you feel you can't wait to object, please take note: I didn't use the words ALL MEN.
10 comments:
This kind of guys are the one I hate most. You should ask your 2 friends to warn him that they would lodge a police report if he continues to harrass them. Show him that they are not easily bullied.
they were friends for quite long. so they tried not to be too harsh. now he got another target (the chinese girl), maybe will temporarily stop.
sometimes we say friends should help each other when one is in trouble. but this kind of thing how to help oh!
"they were friends for quite long"
Friends don't do this to friends. This guy is evil. Ask your two friends to STOP being friends with him. Just cut all the sms/call/email whatever. This guy should go to hell.
my friend also asked me, if i came through this kind of "friend"? i said NO. NEVER. none of my friends is like this (lucky me).
the person might just act to be "uncontrollably abnormal" to take advantage of his female friends. so being his "part time gf" (what an honored title) has no difference from being a prostitute, with no pay!!
Report to police immediately if ur friends still receiving any sms harassment (dont delete, is a proof). Friend? what kind of friend he is ... just a hamsap guy .. no brain!!
My friend just saw this post, and she's glad the bad experience is being shared, to warn the other girls for this kind of "bad friend".
As per the latest update (the post was written quite some time ago), the guy no longer sends SMS to them. maybe he has tagged along with the Chinese girl.
Perhaps the Chinese girl is also willing to do whatever for a marriage, then the country's PR. Who knows? No matter how, I really don't feel the direction of the relationship has been correct, and the entire thing can last long.
I think this guy needs help mentally and the china girl might be out to con despo man like him.
He is sick. A potential psycho. Ask your friend to quite the friendship. If wasn't the China girl, he could have rape your friends. The guy don't even know where's the limit. And your friend too, even allow him to harass them? May be both deserve together. :P
all in all, there are so many hard-to-understand people in the world. i also dunno what to say. RxxO, you always have "unbearable" name (just kidding).
Yay!Finally a like minded person:D
I was knid of worried people will think I'm too easily irriated.But it's seem a lot of bloggers are annoyed by those taggers.
Your friend very poor thing have to due with such a guy-_-
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