Self-Indulgence
Around 3:17pm today, I was called (via messenger).
It's not too suitable to reveal what has happened, but I could just say, it made me happy, it brightened my day!
Few months ago, it was still a hesitated decision. It's proved nowadays that I'm on the right way, and I'm particularly good on the way!
A lot of times, we are afraid of changes. Or should I say, we human, naturally has a certain level of "resistance to change". We foresee too many bad things that are caused by the change, but we never view from the positive sides.
Things that we never experience and expect, may happen! It's not just about the immediate or tangible loss of the existing good stuff.
Therefore, again, I tell myself, I made a right decision, though there were unhappiness, heavy-hearted moments, fear and tears. In another harsher way, I'd say - don't hesitate to abandon the things/people you feel are not good enough.
If we do not pursue for the better, we will not improve, we will not know the better ones can be in our possession.
I should forget the past. There's still a long way for me to go, and I believe, the scenery will be more beautiful!
By the way, share with you some good stuff I've just read from Left Eye's blog:
人生很短，為什麼一定要讓你控制不到的事情去影響你。
三十歲的男人，總是有太多的感慨，因為不再空有理想，因為理解現實，因為自顧不暇，因為有太多苦衷；所以，我們可以原諒自己變成平凡。
平凡沒有不好，只是人生如果有太多的妥協，對我而言，那只不過是老鼠的人生。我不想當老鼠。
It's not too suitable to reveal what has happened, but I could just say, it made me happy, it brightened my day!
Few months ago, it was still a hesitated decision. It's proved nowadays that I'm on the right way, and I'm particularly good on the way!
A lot of times, we are afraid of changes. Or should I say, we human, naturally has a certain level of "resistance to change". We foresee too many bad things that are caused by the change, but we never view from the positive sides.
Things that we never experience and expect, may happen! It's not just about the immediate or tangible loss of the existing good stuff.
Therefore, again, I tell myself, I made a right decision, though there were unhappiness, heavy-hearted moments, fear and tears. In another harsher way, I'd say - don't hesitate to abandon the things/people you feel are not good enough.
If we do not pursue for the better, we will not improve, we will not know the better ones can be in our possession.
I should forget the past. There's still a long way for me to go, and I believe, the scenery will be more beautiful!
"The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today."- Franklin D. Roosevelt
By the way, share with you some good stuff I've just read from Left Eye's blog:
人生很短，為什麼一定要讓你控制不到的事情去影響你。
三十歲的男人，總是有太多的感慨，因為不再空有理想，因為理解現實，因為自顧不暇，因為有太多苦衷；所以，我們可以原諒自己變成平凡。
平凡沒有不好，只是人生如果有太多的妥協，對我而言，那只不過是老鼠的人生。我不想當老鼠。
8 comments:
New career move?
No, I haven't updated my resume for 8 months :) don't try to make me say the truth, plzzzzzzz...
haha, dont try to forget the past. u know u never will. the past is actually who you are, not who you were.
da xiang, i think u should say - "the past makes u who you are" :) i say forget, just coz i don't want it to be a barrier for me to move forward. i will remember the lessons learned. i totally agree with what you said. really.
to move a step forward is not easy...u got to have enough courage...for me, i oso think of what are the consequences after the move...
sometimes all these nonsense thinking make u difficult to move on and that's why i still holding on till now...
im rarely stupid i know.
rainbow, if u dare to change, there is a chance for something better. else, everything just remains the same. life is a series of adventures. never lose the courage to change...
yea,i m agree with ur point. no pain no gain.
im still trying my best to find out a better way to solve the problems....once it is wrong,it might be the end....so got to think twice at least..
good luck then. hope for your good news soon.
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