Unusual Email, Usual Guy's Attitude
This morning, when I checked mails, I was kinda surprised to see a mail from a friend.
I used to sit with this friend for at least 1 year in the past, and when we sat together, we didn't chat much. However, nowadays we do chat via messenger quite often. He's the kind whom I don't even have his mobile phone number in my directory.
Yesterday, he prompted me via messenger but I said I was not free to talk.
In his email today, he wrote:
Hahaha.. I was laughing in heart when seeing this. If not mistaken, this is the first ever email he wrote to me personally, and this is the question he asked!
He's overseas now for work. Has been there for months. I was aware when he was in the airport, as well as when he just arrived at his temporary accommodation. Thanks to the technology.
Few weeks ago, he told me about him and his female colleague, who is also overseas and aroused his interests. According to him, he has not got such feeling for long after he broke off with his ex. Again, I was told a lot of stories (don't know why, I have many of such opportunities and experiences), this and that... and I kept teasing him for being "so drunk"...
One of their means of communications is via cooking (the girl taught the guy). So, when I read that mail, I know it must be related to the girl again :)
While writing this post, 2 more mails came from him:
Haiz, guys... I remember in the past, one who couldn't type Chinese tried so hard, spent so much time, just to reply my SMS in Chinese (yes, I'm very bad and do give a lot of challenges)... till he finally could master the skill fairly well and amazed his friends with his ability to reply fast in Chinese...
When they go after you, they could do a lot of unbelievable things... but once you have become theirs... deng deng deng deng... everything is very different then!
P/S: Therefore, I appreciate those who treat me very well without having any "special motive".
I used to sit with this friend for at least 1 year in the past, and when we sat together, we didn't chat much. However, nowadays we do chat via messenger quite often. He's the kind whom I don't even have his mobile phone number in my directory.
Yesterday, he prompted me via messenger but I said I was not free to talk.
In his email today, he wrote:
Hey, do u know how to prepare the 'syrup' for 'dou fu fa'? Is it just boil the sugar with water..
Hahaha.. I was laughing in heart when seeing this. If not mistaken, this is the first ever email he wrote to me personally, and this is the question he asked!
He's overseas now for work. Has been there for months. I was aware when he was in the airport, as well as when he just arrived at his temporary accommodation. Thanks to the technology.
Few weeks ago, he told me about him and his female colleague, who is also overseas and aroused his interests. According to him, he has not got such feeling for long after he broke off with his ex. Again, I was told a lot of stories (don't know why, I have many of such opportunities and experiences), this and that... and I kept teasing him for being "so drunk"...
One of their means of communications is via cooking (the girl taught the guy). So, when I read that mail, I know it must be related to the girl again :)
While writing this post, 2 more mails came from him:
Nolar...Cook tong sui for myself lar...
Is the ‘bing tang’ good? How much hav to put?
Haha, she don’t like to eat too sweet o salty food...
Sometimes she cooked food n tong sui for me then I cook for her tong sui... ok lar...
Haiz, guys... I remember in the past, one who couldn't type Chinese tried so hard, spent so much time, just to reply my SMS in Chinese (yes, I'm very bad and do give a lot of challenges)... till he finally could master the skill fairly well and amazed his friends with his ability to reply fast in Chinese...
When they go after you, they could do a lot of unbelievable things... but once you have become theirs... deng deng deng deng... everything is very different then!
P/S: Therefore, I appreciate those who treat me very well without having any "special motive".
10 comments:
It's then another story when they got married and then another story when they wanna a divorce.
sure, i think u see much more than me... i wonder if u ever asked them why they want to divorce (and whether they will tell u) when handling the divorce cases?
I normally do not ask, because it will bring lots of problems to us. As i wrote before, I focus on the legal procedures, which is my job. That make my life better.
jingyi, that is so damn true!
haan, this is a good post, totally agree with you!
All I can say is true for many guys but not for all guys =))
yi, just thought some of them would tell u willingly due to uncontrollable emotions. but it's better to know nothing at your position.
kun, thanks. i know u will agree. but still have to clarify, he also treated me quite well after we were together. just after some incidents, he changed his attitude, as u already knew.
chee hoe, seems like most of the time, when i talk "bad" about guys, u would try to emphasize it's not ALL GUYS :) thanks anyway!
别一竹竿打翻整船好男人哦...
老实说，写的时候，我常忘记这点，只是根据自己和朋友的经验。但总会有人提醒！哈哈
sometimes i will think, why ppl do things there is always a motive behind...
once they get what they wish too, they will always forget all their promises...
ppl are always selfish, self center...i believe i am one of them too..
why ppl like to make things complicated...why cant they do things based on the deepest part of their heart...
As times goes by,we know that all those fairy tales wont be exist in the reality....
try to judge before we do anyting, try to listen to your heart....
perhaps you can see the world more beautiful then....
at least, at least wont be like me, always in "miserable" mode.
rainbow, 人不为己，天诸地灭。this is just the nature of life though a bit ugly..
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