7 Facts About Myself
Note: This was written on 2/8/08 (Sat) noon - +0 to take note!
I've got to know about TAGGING since I'm not a passive one in the blogsphere - at least in terms of writing/reading blogs.
However, in terms of the participation in any activity, outing or party, SORRY is the only word I can say. I'm definitely not the type.
In the past, I used to say NO while being tagged. It comes to my surprise today when I see my name on Adrian's tagging list (wrong name but the URL is mine).
Considering the questions are quite suitable for me to review myself a little at this low tides moment, I decided to go for it. 7 facts about myself.. this is not hard. Am just not sure if the people who know me will agree with how I know myself.
Have been writing a lot. But feel quite relief after writing these :)
If you know me, do you think I've been telling the truth?
Lastly, to follow the rule of the game, I'm supposed to tag 7 people. Here you go - Chee Hoe, Qua Chee, Yi, Andrew, Neng, Anson, Kun.
It's okay to reject me ^^ (writing in Chinese is acceptable too).
I've got to know about TAGGING since I'm not a passive one in the blogsphere - at least in terms of writing/reading blogs.
However, in terms of the participation in any activity, outing or party, SORRY is the only word I can say. I'm definitely not the type.
In the past, I used to say NO while being tagged. It comes to my surprise today when I see my name on Adrian's tagging list (wrong name but the URL is mine).
Considering the questions are quite suitable for me to review myself a little at this low tides moment, I decided to go for it. 7 facts about myself.. this is not hard. Am just not sure if the people who know me will agree with how I know myself.
- I'm a typical Virgo.
I've been quite proud being a Virgo so far. Few days ago, a good friend who is now engaged with a Virgo girlfriend texted me. He said, it's so hard to be a (female) Virgo's lover. Virgo likes to torture the person who loves her - making him feels like want to give up the relationship.
Not sure why, my immediate response to his SMS was - this is quite true... (plus some other elaborations). What I can say is, Virgo does so with reasons, and only the tough ones can get through - abundant of time and patience are required. However, Virgo can definitely be a very good friend though not an easy-to-deal-with lover. - I'm very black and white.
Wrote about this before, and I don't think I've changed much so far. However, I think I'm slightly better than some others, as I usually reject people at the very beginning, not at a later stage (e.g. the person used to be your good friend, then only found out the unpleasant truth). I trust my intuition... coz most of the time they are fairly accurate.
- I don't trust love very much.
For those who know more about my family, would have known why. I do hope I can trust love whole-heartedly but since I'm quite rational in this area, that is very hard. I admit that when I was in that "trap", I lost myself to certain level and was indulged. But I'm still a careful one. A word or sentence expressed unintentionally (which is actually straight from the heart) could be remembered firmly, resulting in failure in other aspects.
While knowing some sacrifices and adjustments are definitely needed, I only look for improvement of life quality with the participation of another party. If the combination brings more suffer, tears and worry, I'd call it an end, when I feel I can no longer bear with it. I've a lot more to accomplish in my life, thus wish not to waste too much time being in a bad situation. You can say I'm selfish. Yes, I am, coz this is the best way to protect oneself.
- I am trustworthy.
According to my past experiences, people trust me easily, even not knowing me for very long. For instance, I got the key of people's room/house, and also the passwords for several accounts, or even money. Others also tend to tell me their secrets and problems.
There is an example where the husband and wife both tell me the difficulty of living with each other, whilst knowing I'm close to both parties. The reason could be, I'm always very sincere to others. I won't pretend to like you if I don't. - I love traveling, photography, writing, adventurous activities.
This is too obvious and no elaboration is necessary :) However, surfing is still NOT in my to-do list at the moment.
- I change drastically from time to time.
In the past, I hated to come home. Now, I come back to hometown whenever possible. I also loved driving last time, but not now. Mum said that when I was young, I was cunning enough; but when I grow up, I'm too straight-forward in dealing with people. 5 years ago, I thought I'd stay forever in Australia once I got the PR visa. Who knows, after 9 months of the grant of visa, I decided to come back to Malaysia.
Sometimes I wonder where will I finally get to with such characteristic. Nonetheless, this is the fun part of life coz we don't know what's gonna happen next. - I wanna be independent.
A friend used to tell me, I'm the most independent girl he has ever met. Hehe.. he knew me quite well but not fully. I'm also quite dependent while being with some people, though not till the extent of RELYING. That's why, after someone is away from my life, I felt like I was useless. I wanted to go here/there, but didn't have idea how to. When I was blissfully driven to those places, I never took note of the routes.
That day, at the airport, boss wanted to carry my luggage for me and I rejected. He replied "you should learn to be more lady by letting the men help". Sorry boss, I just did not wish to repeat such a mistake. I want to do everything by myself, so that when others come or go, they make no difference to my life. I'm the only one that should have an impact on my own life.
Have been writing a lot. But feel quite relief after writing these :)
If you know me, do you think I've been telling the truth?
Lastly, to follow the rule of the game, I'm supposed to tag 7 people. Here you go - Chee Hoe, Qua Chee, Yi, Andrew, Neng, Anson, Kun.
It's okay to reject me ^^ (writing in Chinese is acceptable too).
6 comments:
Will response after I identify the facts.
i understand why you said, "I want to do everything by myself, so that when others come or go, they make no difference to my life. I'm the only one that should have an impact on my own life."
I think all Virgo share the same thinking like you and ME!
Wow, I was tagged. So this is called the tagging. I haven't heard of this before. I'll response to you later la. Give me some time to sort things out.
Never know about the game until I saw this....thanks for TAGGING me :)
This tag is going to be a post by itself.
I'll definitely do it but give me some time. Been extremely busy lately.
it's always good to know abt your ownself...im glad you can do that.
i like to be independant too....you are right ".....to do everything by myself, so that when others come or go, they make no difference to my life. I'm the only one that should have an impact on my own life"......
i always wish to, but i failed...
i really have no idea why...even tough was being hurt so many times.....
mayb im a typical pisces....fragile...got to handle with care
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